Ladies, stop dating the ‘potential’ of a man and instead forge a relationship filled with the potential of possibilities because of what you both bring to the table. The mindset of what you can gain from a union is the twisted-ness of ego and greed. Instead the mindset of how what you bring marries what the other person brings is what lays the right foundation.
I have found that men only want to know and feel that who they are and what they bring are GOOD ENOUGH. Truth be told, any woman who is THAT BUILT LIKE THAT WOMAN knows that what she brings elevates him to exponentially greater than good enough and the only women wanting ready made greatness are those scavengers looking to feed off of instead of feed into.