WHAT KIND OF IMPACT DO YOU IMPART? – By Hustle Mama
Relationships are a funny thing. It is amazing how the vibrations of a ‘collective’ operate on the frequency of those emissions from its individual members. In mathematics, a whole is equal to the sum of its parts. If we were to transfer that towards ourselves then it would ring true that we are equal to the sum of our parts. So what do you add up to exactly? Can you honestly say you are at 100% of who you are? Or are you looking, searching, and thirsting for something on the outside to complete the parts of you operating less effectively on the inside?
We are a people who live by desires and are driven by thirsts. It is how we were created. We desire love and are driven by the thirst for those things that we believe and/or hold dear and/or have convinced ourselves will lead to a life that we will eventually love… by being loved and having love from all these THINGS. Instead of always searching for what you can find, people should search for what they can bring. Instead of looking for that which will MAKE them or complete them, we should look for how we can make a difference towards someone else’s incomplete task.
People tend to want and expect a lot from relationships and other human beings… things they promise they are willing to pledge and give of themselves once they FIND that person, but not necessarily willing to pledge and give to themselves without that person or to every person whether it is THAT person or not. In the end, in my opinion, the only kind of impact that matters in any human being’s life, is the one you can stand before a mirror proudly, boldly, and with the utmost humility and say you imparted in love, through love, and only because of love. Once you have mastered the art of loving yourself enough to be WHOLE through your own parts, you will easily develop the skill of loving others without the expectation of anything in return even when their parts don’t add up.
PEOPLE. My BROTHERS & SISTERS… This GROUP is personal, but the posts are not to be taken PERSONALLY. It is a forum and yes debates will ensue and that is what happens when intelligent people present differences of opinion. It’s ok to get excited and passionate. What we don’t want is to be rude or disrespectful. We can agree to disagree. We can each keep it moving by the posts that don’t work well for us. There are people here and since we do not know where people are in their lives, let’s say that SOMEONE could use what’s being said and sometimes that person can be a person not even commenting but just reading. That’s why it’s called “MEETING PEOPLE WHERE THEY ARE”.
I LOVE the engagement and I respect everyone’s RIGHTS… just remember at the end of the day TO COMMENT, TO ENGAGE, TO PARTICIPATE, TO COMMUNICATE is a CHOICE. It is your choice. And just so that we are clear again as a reminder… This group is a judgment free zone for open, honest, and real talk communication about relationships, dating, marriage, and divorce. We agree to disagree in a mutually respected environment.
